The Cove

Watched The Cove with my husband. He’s seen it before, but was glad to watch it again with me. Or rather, glad might not be the proper word for it, he warned me I might not sleep soundly after watching it, but at the same time ensured me it was worth watching.

And he’s right. It is a movie worth watching. But at the same time it’s a movie that is dreadfully depressing. I have a hard time to fathom how lethal and cruel man can be. Mankind is lethal for everything and everyone, including ourselves. This is one of those movies I would like for everyone to watch. So please, if you have avoided this, in the same way I have, please watch it. It will make you tense up, and become horrified, but it must be watched!

Paul Watson, the famous environmental activist, quotes Margaret Mead when being interviewed in the movie, and this is the piece of hope I bring with me from it:20130614-001539.jpg

And in a strange way, I agree with that. It seems like that’s the way of the world. Hopefully not 100%, but still… I cannot help but feel that way too many governments, authorities and institutions seem to get lost in their How’s, while forgetting their Why. And that’s when it all goes to pieces. Sooner or later. And The Cove is a clear example of that.

Sign the petition like I did, or do something else to stop this senseless annual atrocity! Hopefully the slaughter will stop completely, but the number of dolphins killed each year have diminished since The Cove was released. So keep on being a passionate individual, because that’s what makes the world a better place!

My passion lies with the #schoolspring, aka #skolvåren – where is yours?

To this day…

I’ve seen this before, as Dan Pearce, aka Single Dad Laughing, posted this spoken word-poem it in a blog post a few months ago.

But here it is, again, or for those who haven’t seen it yet, as a TED Talk.
Watch it.

Watched it?
Then act. Now. Enough is enough! Together we create the world we live in. And I cannot believe that this is the world we want for ourselves, for our children, grandchildren, greatgrandchildren and so on…

20130528-125113.jpgJust because it will be hard to create a better world, doesn’t mean it cannot be done.
Just because the world have never been as good as it might be, doesn’t mean it cannot be done. It just means we have to give it that little bit extra. And perhaps it isn’t hard to do. Perhaps it’s a matter of being ourselves, true and genuine. So let us be all that we are, our beautiful unique selves, sharing our onlyness with the world. And let us not wait for tomorrow, or next year, or in 2020. Let’s start right this second.

I am unique. I am perfect, in all that I am. I am me.

Who are you?

#skolvåren aka #school spring

I have attended several trainings for Transformational Presence Leaders and Coaches by Alan Seale, and was very thrilled when I was given the opportunity to share #skolvåren, that is #school spring, in his newsletter The Transformer.

Transformer”School Spring” – Transforming Education To Create A World That Works

by Helena Roth

(Helena Roth from Sweden is a graduate of the Transformational Presence Leadership and Coach Training program. She first shared ”School Spring” with our community at the first Transformational Presence Global Summit in The Netherlands in March 2013.)

Three and a half years ago, I became the chairwoman of the parent association of my children’s two schools here in Sweden. Thus began my journey into the world of schools. I have read, watched, listened, talked, and then read some more, until, more recently, my interest has become a raging passion for school development. Or, better said, a passion for creating a world that works, with schools as the foremost pathway to get there.

Having set aside some money in my company, I decided to dedicate 2013 as my year for school development, even though I didn’t know if, and if so, how, this project would put bread on my table. I also took advantage of the ”early bird” price for the Transformational Presence Global Summit that was held in The Netherlands in March, knowing that the energy kick I would receive from the Summit would serve me for the rest of 2013. Little did I know when I first reserved my place at the Summit that it would not turn out to be a kick to get anything started, but instead would be ”superfuel” to kick into overdrive what had already begun.

On February 15th at 10 pm while on Twitter, I made a connection with a teacher in Varberg, Sweden. We began planning a meeting in Varberg for June 18th and 19th to discuss schools and society, and we opened the meeting to anyone else who wanted to join us. This was the start of #skolvåren, or #schoolspring in English, paraphrasing the ”Arabic Spring” and tapping into the power of life that spring brings.

With #schoolspring, we began by asking ”Why?” in order to find the direction for ”How?” The Swedish school debate is in a sorry state, with lots of name-calling and blame games, and is almost solely concerned with ”How.” There are no visions, no talk about the world we want to live in today and tomorrow. Therefore, it seems that we as a society no longer really know what schools are for – what their purpose is. So in #skolvåren, we ask ”Why?” over and over again as a first step in gaining clarity about what education in today’s world needs to be about.

Now, three months later, the event in Varberg is fully booked at 130 registered participants with more than twenty people on a waiting list. Among the participants will be politicians and major business CEOs, as well as many interested citizens who are eager to explore together ”Why school?” The school debate in Sweden has started to come alive, and #schoolspring is clearly fueling the conversation.

My personal goal is to change the school systems on a global scale by 2020, and I know there are many people around the world with similar interests and goals. Sweden is certainly not the only country where education systems are in trouble. This is a global issue. For me, the larger goal is to create a world that works. I believe that vibrant, empowering, creative, and effective schools can be one of the most impactful ways to do that. School systems of today are one of the primary filters that most children pass through. So why not ensure that we have set up the best systems we can possibly have, enabling and empowering children to be all that they can be? That’s the world I want to live in – a world where each and every person is encouraged, coached, challenged, and expected to be all they can be.

There are many signs that this wants to happen, including well over 28,000 visits to the #schoolspring blog and more than 1,400 followers on Twitter (@skolvaren). In addition, we have attracted the attention of Richard Gerver, author of the best-selling book, Creating Tomorrow’s Schools Today. His interest in our cause is also making a difference.

I invite anyone who is interested in transforming education to be in touch with me to talk about how we can work together to take this movement to the world.

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Thank you Alan for providing this wonderful opportunity to share #skolvåren across the globe – because for me, the goal is a global transformation of school systems, in order to create a world that works. Because I believe we have not reached the pinnacle of human achievements yet – I believe we can do better.

Are you with me on that?

Importance of small things

A while ago, I watched the most magnificent act. It’s absolutely astounding, and if you’ve missed it, watch it yourself before you read the rest of this post:  I am amazed by her strength and serenity. Her focus is absolute. I absolutely love how she shows that the weight of a feather, albeit minimal, is of such crucial importance to the whole construction. The construction itself has an organic feel to it, is in constant movement, but stay together until one integral part of it is removed. Enough to collapse the whole structure. This is worth pondering on a larger scale as well – because the importance of the small things tend to be forgotten. We are all, regardless of our assumed importance (position, wealth, status) infinitely important to the whole construction of mankind. For mankind to persist, we also need to understand the importance of all the other small things. Nature is an organic construction comprising of an unfathomable number of things, varying in size from miniscule to immense, and if one integral part is removed – we risk a collapse of the whole structure. Do you ever consider the importance of the small things?

#esc2013

I am not alone. There are thousands of people at Malmö Arena and me and my daughter are two of them.

It’s the dress rehearsal for the big finale tonight. I am not much of a Eurovision Song Contest-fan but my daughter loves it and it is an experience. So when my hometown was chosen to host the event after Loreen won last year, I decided to give my daughter this for Christmas.

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Music and singing, a bit of glamour and a party feeling – ingredients that can spice up any day!

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I can’t help myself from shedding a tear or two – whenever I see a lot of happy people coming together I am moved. We are meant to be together, and share moments of happiness. ‘We are one’ is a great theme for this event!

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I also like to spend time with the kids, one-on-one. It makes for a special treat. And right now, the male family members are also having a one-on-one of a different kind. Double treat!

Do you jump to the occasion to spice up your day when you have the opportunity?

Who would I be…

Alexandra Rydholm posted a poem on her Facebook profile that was so wonderful I immediately asked her if I could credit her in this blog post. Here it is, the most lovely poem, by sculptor Paige Bradley, who makes amazing bronze sculptures as well:

”From the moment we are born, the world tends to have a container already built for us to fit inside: A social security number, a gender, a race, a profession or an I.Q. I ponder if we are more defined by the container we are in, rather than what we are inside. Would we recognize ourselves if we could expand beyond our bodies? Would we still be able to exist if we were authentically un-contained?”
-Paige Bradley

I think a lot about containers, boxes, labels and classifications. I understand the need for them on one hand, not least because they make it easier to talk to each other. They provide a short cut, in a way, which save us from having to explain in more words, what can be summarized in just one. But on the other hand, they put up barriers, limits, restrictions and boundaries that, in many ways I believe, stop us from being all that I am, or at least all I can be.

All these definitions I can attribute to myself: woman, mother, wife, biologist, coach, book reader, blogger, project manager, change agent, caucasian, cat lover, amateur gardener, entrepreneur. And I am sure I can come up with many more.

With this list of attributes, I am assuming you are painting a picture of me in your head? Drawing conclusions as to who and how I am, as a person?

I mean, that’s what I do. But should I? Am I not restricting my ability to see the other person for who he/she truly is? And even worse – am I not restricting myself as well, by adding labels to me? I can honestly say I am more authentic and much more myself now, than I was 15 years ago. But the great thing is I am finding out more and more of myself with each passing day.

20130503-212823.jpgWho would I be to you, if I hadn’t provided you with these labels?

Who would I be to you, if you only saw 100% Helena?

Who would you be, if you strip off your own labels?

Rooms of insight

I got pinged on Facebook by Iwan Karlsson. He wrote:

Please. Read this. It’s important. Helena Roth Give me some input.

The blogg post he was asking me and others to read was by Judy Sedgeman, called Ask the deeper questions. Please read the blog post before you carry on reading here.

I answered Iwan:

Wow.
Thank you ever so much for pinging me here! I absolutely loved this blogpost. I agree, 100% with it. We have the answers within ourselves, and I believe children to a large extent have the capability to live with their thoughts. Then society, norm, schooling etc set in, and gradually shut those innate systems down.

It’s time to
1) show people they have it all inside, the inside-out revolution!
2) ensure we create systems, norms etc that do NOT diminish ourselves, but rather ensures we learn how to truly live in peace, understand ourselves and our perception of the world around us.

Thank you Iwan!

I have been asking questions for some time now. As I surge ahead asking questions, it’s as if I open up new doors within me, to rooms of insights and even more curiosity. This then triggers even more questions, and off I go, in a positive upward spiral.

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The more questions I ask, the deeper they become. And boy, am I happy to be in this discovery phase within myself, where my perception of the world becomes clearer by the minute. Writing a blog post every day is one way I have of both asking and answering questions, and I am so happy I have gotten into this habit.

Where are your deep questions?